How to Tell Your Kids You're Getting Divorced
A 2-part Course to guide you through minimizing impact and maximizing connection.
"You're not just ending a marriage, you're reshaping a family.
You want to do it with the utmost care, love, and knowledge, setting the stage for them to thrive.
Heidi Dinning
Divorce, Co-parenting and Communications Expert
Author: How To Tell Your Kids You're Getting Divorced"
A Comprehensive Guide to Discussing Divorce with Your Kids
Heidi will guide you
through this moment and beyond with
expertise, experience and empathy.
You’re here because you’re grappling
with a reality you never wanted to face.
Your marriage is ending.
The mere thought leaves your stomach in knots,
thinking about your kids.
How do you take this step without changing their feelings of security and stability?
Do you know what you're going to say?
No parent wants to see the light in their child’s eyes dim. But it can happen, in one poorly handled conversation.
Your words in that moment carry a weight that will shape your child's future—either burdening them with confusion and insecurity or uplifting them with understanding and love.
I know because I've been where you are.
First, as a child left adrift when my parents divorced. And then again as a parent, working through the challenges of separation & divorce, all while trying to find the right timing and words to explain the situation to my children in a way that wouldn't create unnecessary anxiety.
What Do I get with the Course?
1 - A step-by-step guide to discussing divorce with your kids
2 - Accompanying videos, expanding on the tactics in the e-book.
The Ebook and Guide
The Videos
Gain insight on what to say and NOT to say
Avoid the 5 most common mistakes parents make
Curate scripts for your child's age and stage
Prepare yourself emotionally as a parent for this moment
Navigate the aftershocks, questions and next steps with grace and ease.
What is the best place to start?
Working with a difficult spouse
Learn how a child processes information
The Love, Safety, Belonging Method™
How to answer the common questions from kids
Avoid the five biggest mistakes parents make
Watch this important video below:
This is the moment of truth
How you conduct yourself now can either pave the way for your children's
long-term well-being or contribute to lasting emotional challenges.
This Guide Is Your Ultimate Instruction Manual
Peace of Mind:
Know EXACTLY what to say
and when to say it.
Ready-to-Use Scripts:
Say the right words, no
second-guessing.
Step-by-Step Guidance:
From setting the stage to
handling the aftermath.
let Me Be Your Ally
In This Difficult journey
I’ve dedicated my life to coaching parents through the labyrinth of divorce. Not just as a Certified Divorce, Recovery, and Co-parenting Coach, but as someone who has lived the bewildering, confusing, and difficult path you're walking now.
Hundreds of clients have benefited from my guidance, many of whom felt like shells of themselves—just as you might feel right now. I offer you not only professional expertise but also a deeply empathetic understanding born from lived experience.
why This Guide is Your Lifeline
why This Guide is Your Lifeline
You might be thinking, "I'll cross that bridge when I get there," but this isn't a conversation you can wing. Whether you're breaking the news tomorrow or next year… or even if it’s already happened
and you’re doing damage control…. NOW is the time to arm yourself with this knowledge.
You might be thinking, "I'll cross that
bridge when I get there," but this isn't a conversation you can wing. Whether you're breaking the news tomorrow or next year… or even if it’s already happened and you’re doing damage control…. NOW is the time to arm yourself with this knowledge.
The Love, Safety,
and Belonging Method™
The Love, Safety,
and Belonging Method™
This guide isn't about mechanical scripts. It's about the principles of Love, Safety, and Belonging, crucial elements that your child needs to feel during this transition.
Don’t Let Your Kids
Be Collatoral Damage
Did you know that poorly handled conversations about divorce can lead to long-term damage? Trust me, the stories I've heard would break your heart: children blaming themselves, growing emotionally distant, or developing trust issues.
These issues can continue with them into adulthood. This is your time to be the bigger person, be pro-active, and equip yourself for this life-altering conversation.
YOU'LL RECEIVE ALL OF THIS
In each of these videos, I will walk you through each and every step so you avoid
the five most common mistakes parents make.
WHAT'S IN THE VIDEO COURSE?
Module #1: The Base: The Love, Safety, Belonging Method
Module #2: Real Life Examples: The Love, Safety Belonging Method
Module #3: Adult World vs Kid’s World: Going into Kid’s World
Module #4: How To Prepare Yourself for the Conversation
Module #5: Setting the Stage Part 1: The Where & The When
Module #6: Setting the Stage Part 2: Planning The Conversation
Module #7: The Words: The Conversation Base
Module #8: Emotional Authenticity: Being Humans
Module #9: How to Answer Questions: The Base
Module #10: Ages & Stages: Step by Step
Module #11: The Five Biggest Mistakes Parents Make & How to Avoid
Module #12: Navigating Complex Scenarios
We Sell this Video Course on it's own for $67
YOU'LL GET ALL THIS!
Module #1: The Base: The Love, Safety, Belonging Method
Module #2: Real Life Examples: The Love, Safety Belonging Method
Module #3: Adult World vs Kid’s World: Going into Kid’s World
Module #4: How To Prepare Yourself for the Conversation
Module #5: Setting the Stage Part 1: The Where & The When
Module #6: Setting the Stage Part 2: Planning The Conversation
Module #7: The Words: The Conversation Base
Module #8: Emotional Authenticity: Being Humans
Module #9: How to Answer Questions: The Base
Module #10: Ages & Stages: Step by Step
Module #11: The Five Biggest Mistakes Parents Make & How to Avoid
Module #12: Navigating Complex Scenarios
Each video is short, quick, and easy to watch!
A total of 65-minutes of video coaching, so you feel grounded and prepared for any difficult conversation.
TOTAL VALUE: $900
Bought Separately: $97
ON THIS PAGE ONLY: $47
(The value of your peace of mind is PRICELESS)
WHAT'S IN THE EBOOK?
Well sell this book on it's own for $20
Chapters in the Book
Part 1: The LSB Method®: Love, Safety & Belonging
Part 2: Preparing Yourself for "The Talk"
Part 3: Setting the Stage & Creating the Right Environment
Part 4: Conducting "The Talk"
Part 5: Navigating the Emotional Aftershocks
Part 6: Age-Specific Script Prompts
Part 7: Age-Appropriate Approaches & Tailored Scripts
Part 8: Common Questions & Scripted Responses
Part 9: Avoiding the Five Most Common Mistakes
Part 10: Avoiding the Five Most Common Mistakes
If you were to work with me one-on-one through live coaching & consulting, the investment to dive into the 10 Steps in the EBOOK would be a minimum of a $650 investment .
I wanted to make this information more affordable and accessible to more parents, ensuring more kids aren't traumatized through their parent's divorce, they are in fact better for it.
So, for less than the cost of a smoothie and a wrap or a latte at your spot, you get this essential guide.
The e-book is yours to keep — shareable with your co-parent, so you're both on the same page.
YOU'LL RECEIVE ALL OF IT
IN THIS COURSE!
In each of these videos, I will walk you through each and every step so you avoid the 5 most common mistakes parents make!
How to talk to your kids about divorce COURSE
Copyright © 2023 Heidi Dinning
WHAT THE FANS ARE SAYING
SUCCESS STORIES
Shannon Beshara
GENERAL MANAGER - SCHOOL ROCK CALGARY
I have worked for Bryan for almost 3 years, and he has helped me grow as a first-time manager significantly. Having his guidance to learn to weigh important decisions, gather all required information, speak plainly but kindly, and confidently work with our team to develop the School Of Rock Calgary community has been invaluable.
He listens and encourages people to come up with solutions to issues, trusting their gut and their expertise. I have definitely grown more confident and sure of my own abilities to listen, learn, and lead, thanks to his help! His encouragement toward a growth mindset has energized me and our team to grow the school and our programs to all-time highs. The energy in the school is exciting, and customers love to be a part of what we have built here. I am so happy to be a part of it myself!
Paula Carvalho
OWNER, SCHOOL OF ROCK - MISSISSAUGA TERRITORY
Bryan travelled from Calgary to train our staff as we prepare to open our School of Rock Streetsville. He sent us pre-training material and shared his school information. He spent two days with us meeting with the team and presenting a clear and organized overview of our teaching method and programs. Bryan enjoyed speaking with our music instructors and he answered their questions in detail. He continues to meet with our managers to provide ongoing support and help. Bryan is a true professional genuinely focused on the success of our team. He is a dynamic, interesting speaker and enthusiastic presenter. I value all I’ve learned with Bryan and the way in which he has continued to follow up. With confidence, I highly recommend his training, coaching and mentoring services.
Fiona Balaton
DIRECTOR OF TRAINING AT LEADERSHIPSMARTS
As a longtime client of Bryan’s, I recommend him and his team at the School of Rock Calgary without hesitation. I have witnessed his commitment to his students, and his passion and belief in the the School of Rock program first hand. Bryan goes above and beyond to ensure a supportive and inclusive learning environment, and to provide exciting and unique opportunities for his students. Bryan and his team at School of Rock Calgary deliver a top notch music program that has exceeded my expectations in so many ways. I thoroughly enjoy being part of the School of Rock Calgary community.
Shannon Beshara
GENERAL MANAGER - SCHOOL ROCK CALGARY
I have worked for Bryan for almost 3 years, and he has helped me grow as a first-time manager significantly. Having his guidance to learn to weigh important decisions, gather all required information, speak plainly but kindly, and confidently work with our team to develop the School Of Rock Calgary community has been invaluable.
He listens and encourages people to come up with solutions to issues, trusting their gut and their expertise. I have definitely grown more confident and sure of my own abilities to listen, learn, and lead, thanks to his help! His encouragement toward a growth mindset has energized me and our team to grow the school and our programs to all-time highs. The energy in the school is exciting, and customers love to be a part of what we have built here. I am so happy to be a part of it myself!
Paula Carvalho
OWNER, SCHOOL OF ROCK - MISSISSAUGA TERRITORY
Bryan travelled from Calgary to train our staff as we prepare to open our School of Rock Streetsville. He sent us pre-training material and shared his school information. He spent two days with us meeting with the team and presenting a clear and organized overview of our teaching method and programs. Bryan enjoyed speaking with our music instructors and he answered their questions in detail. He continues to meet with our managers to provide ongoing support and help. Bryan is a true professional genuinely focused on the success of our team. He is a dynamic, interesting speaker and enthusiastic presenter. I value all I’ve learned with Bryan and the way in which he has continued to follow up. With confidence, I highly recommend his training, coaching and mentoring services.